Prom night is one of the most exciting things that happen during school years and is a night that many hard-working students take very seriously. The fancy clothes, the limo, the anticipation; Some students even prepare for prom months in advance.
When Jackson’s prom came around he couldn’t be more excited about the night ahead. When his so-called friends dumped him and left him high and dry without a prom to go to, Jackson was devastated, even if he had learned a valuable life lesson…
Pre Prom
Jackson was so excited that it was finally prom night, he didn’t know what to do with himself. All that anticipation, a new custom-tailored suit and a bunch of nerves had Jackson feeling so high on life, his mother Sheila even needed to calm him down.
Prom Night
Months of organization had gone into this night as well as a few hundred dollars in new clothes and shoes. It was Jackson’s first prom and that’s what made the prospect of it so tantalizing for him. Jackson awoke bright and early that day, his mind filled with fantasies of how his first prom would actually go down.
The Band
Jackson, being the talented musical type, was in a band and he had gotten close with some of his fellow band members, or so he thought. They told him they would call him in the afternoon that day to tell him where to meet them for the traditional pre-prom photo shoot. When he hadn’t heard from them all day, Jackson and his mom started to grow concerned.
Still Waiting
By the time 6 pm came around Jackson was more or less in a state of panic. He was getting the vibe that he had been dumped by his buddies, and now he might not be going to prom after all. “He waited, and he waited, and he waited,” his mom Sheila said, “No one responded to his texts or picked up his calls. His younger brother and sister and I watched him as he started to realize that he was being ditched.”
Feeling The Pain
It was becoming clearer by the minute; poor Jackson had been dumped by his alleged friends on the most important night of his adult life so far. “I have to tell you that in my 18 yrs of parenting I have never felt so much pain. It was mixed with an indescribable amount of rage. This was… painful. Then, after he changed out of his suit, he saw all of their pre-prom pictures on Facebook, and he all but collapsed in the kitchen.” recalled Sheila.
Not Surprised
Even though Jackson was upset, devastated in fact, he wasn’t in the least bit surprised. He had always felt like a third wheel when it came to social settings, and this was just more proof that he was an “invisible, throwaway loser,” as he put it…
Always Struggling
According to Jackson’s mom, her son has always struggled hard to fit in socially, “He’s always been on the fringe and really wanted to be part of a group.” said Sheila, “It wasn’t until high school band where we thought, ‘Oh, great! There’s going to be band kids!'”
Band Kids
Despite Sheila’s high hopes, these band kids were bad news. Not only did they take to mocking Jackson on a regular basis, but they also left him out of a recent trip they took to Disney World as well as just about every other trip they planned and went on without him. Sheila’s dreams of her son fitting in more easily were dashed…
Blames Himself
As is sadly so often the case with introvert social types, Jackson said he blames himself for the fact his alleged band buddies treated him badly, “I’ve been kind of blind about it,” Jackson said, adding, “I kind of showed them how to treat me.” The band members never gave Jackson priority nor made him feel good about himself.
In the Back
Jackson also spoke about what it felt like to be in such an awkward situation, “I was like, They can do whatever they want, I’m all right. I can be in the back.’ But I never really liked it. … It really hurts me when it’s almost every time that I’m just in the back, tagging along, and barely anyone is talking to me.”
Text Message
That same night Sophie, one of the girls in the Junior band, texted Sheila telling her to sneak Jackson’s suit into the trunk of his car without his knowledge. She told her to do it in time for the following Monday, which just happened to be Memorial Day.
Blowing Off Steam
Jackson had hardly slept since the prom disaster. He was livid, upset, hurt and so many other things. He awoke early on Memorial Day and headed over to the gym to do some CrossFit in order to blow off steam. When he got a text from Sophie inviting him over to her house to hangout he felt a little better, but couldn’t get missing the prom out of his mind…
Happy Fake Prom!
As soon as Jackson arrived at Sophie’s house he was totally stunned when he was greeted at the front door by all the other Junior band members, dressed in their formalwear, all screaming in unison as he approached, “Happy fake prom!”
Shed A Tear
Jackson fondly recalled the moment when he was ushered into Sophie’s bathroom to change into his suit, “I was flabbergasted.” he said, “I didn’t know how to respond. I’m in the bathroom changing [into my suit] and I kind of shed a tear a little bit.”
Heart Touched
All of Jackson’s angst and upset dissipated in seconds as it suddenly dawned on him what the term good friends really meant, “because no one has ever done this for me, really ever. … This is what it means to receive a gift from friends who are doing something, particularly for me,” said Jackson as he beamed with a broad smile from ear to ear.
Lame Excuses
That fake prom sure did get the attention of the Senior band members who had dumped Jackson in the first place. Soon after they saw the fake prom cake on Facebook they reached back out to Jackson with a half-hearted apology and lame excuses about how they were just “disorganized” on prom night…
Life Lesson
Jackson’s first prom experience may have been more of a baptism of fire than anything else. For his part, Jackson feels he has learned an invaluable life lesson, even if it was a painful one at a relatively young age. Nevertheless, the lad is now a “little wiser” about what true friends are and are not.
Offering Advice
As a fully-fledged friendship expert Jackson spoke his mind, offering advice to other people who might find themselves in a similar situation, “You may feel like you belong in a place and you’re in a great group of friends, but make sure that they’re taking care of you as well,” he said; Pretty solid advice in the opinion of this writer…
Gut Feeling
“Listen to your gut. If you feel pissed off about something and feel like they’re not treating you well, then you’re probably right. It took me a long time to figure that out.” Jackson said, adding, “You’re going to find plenty of people that will find you interesting and will actually care about you in the end.”
Happy Ending
Despite the trials and tribulations that Jackson went through the same out on top and feel like a winner. He also became somewhat of a philosopher along the way, and waxed lyrical about what he has learned, “There are 7 or 8 billion people; at the same time, we feel like we’re isolated with these few groups of people, and if they’re gone or you decide not to be friends, then you’re alone. But there are plenty of people out there. Even outside of our country.”
Senior Ditched By ‘Friends’ On Prom Night Walks Away a Winner is an article from: LifeDaily