We may meet many men in our lifetime, but when you meet a great guy, you shouldn’t let him go.
Here are 10 Signs You’re Dating A Great Guy Who You Shouldn’t Let Go:
1. He listens to you
I’m talking about actually listens to you, and hears what you’re saying. He doesn’t interrupt you, and he understands where you are coming from- given that you explain yourself in the right way. This entails listening when it comes to anything- when you’re talking about your day at work, a friend who upset you, or something in the relationship that you want to discuss.
2. He doesn’t tell you what you should and shouldn’t do
This is a big one, because someone who tells you what to do can be a controlling person, and no one can actually control another human being, so if he controls you, that is a bad sign. A supportive guy will offer his advice only if you ask for it; Nothing is worse than someone giving you advice when you didn’t even want it in the first place.
3. He doesn’t make you feel bad if you happen to cry
Sometimes guys can be very insensitive, not to say that women cry all the time because this is certainly not the case, but if we happen to get upset over something, the worse thing is to have our boyfriend or husband make us feel bad about it.
4. He lets you be you
This means flaws and all. It is important in a relationship for both people to accept one another for who they are, and not try and change them. A good person for you is someone who has seen you at your worst, and your best, and loves you either way.
5. He is there for you
If you are upset about something, or are just having a bad day, he is right there with you- doing whatever he can to make you feel better, because your happiness is important to him.
6. He is interested in spending time with your family
Whenever you suggest doing something with your family, or inviting him to spend time with your family, he is on board with it. He doesn’t shy away from your family, or somewhat touch questions that can possibly be asked to him. He knows that your family is important to you, and he makes an effort to get to know them.
7. When you are pmsing, he doesn’t run for the hills
As women, it is only normal that we get our periods, and along with that comes somewhat bitchiness. We actually really can’t help it, no matter how hard we try and keep it under control. So when we get our friend of the month, we have the right guy if he isn’t scared of us, and doesn’t take our temporary bitchy and emotional self to heart.
8. He is the only person you need to have a good time with
Of course you will have other people in your life- family and friends, but when you are with your man you have the best time. You might actually prefer to spend more time with him because he truly is your best friend. You guys laugh a lot, and smile, and can talk about anything- because you genuinely enjoy each others company.
9. You can have fun with him doing nothing
This is really important, because sometimes people have more fun when they are around others with their significant other or out and about. The real test of your love will be how the two of you are at home, or relaxing doing nothing, watching a movie, and in situations where there is not a lot going on. It will prove how strong your connection, chemistry, and attraction is.
10. You can’t stop thinking about him
While this may be a given, I still must include it, because when you are with a guy who you really love, you cannot get him off of your mind. No matter how hard you try, he is always the first one you think about when something funny happens, or when you just want to talk to someone. You miss him constantly when you are not with him, and you want to be with him all the time.
When it’s all said and done, you can have the most amazing guy, but you also have to be amazing to him as well- it is a two-way street, and neither person is more important than the other- both are equal.
If you find a guy that embodies all of these things, you are doing pretty good. And I’m sure for any of you who are with a great guy, he probably has many more good qualities than just the ones we mentioned. Please share them with us!
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