The woman you wind up marrying will likely be worlds different than the girls you’ve dated.
Either the girl you dated is your wife now, and she has changed dramatically from the time the two of you got together (and so have you). Or, you’ve dated girls in the past, but they will never match up to what your wife will be.
Here are 7 Differences In the Girl You Date Versus the Woman You Marry:
1. The girl you date only cares about herself and her looks.
The woman you marry will care about you, your health and your wellbeing, and not just her own.
2. The girl you date is only focused on her goals.
The woman you marry is focused on her goals, your goals, and then your goals together. You each have individual goals and relationship goals that are equally important as your individual ones.
3. The girl you date does not care to get to know the people in your life- i.e. your family and friends. She has her own ‘people’, and that’s all she cares about.
The woman you marry will be very interested to get to know the important people in your life. She will know that they are an indicator of where you came from, and a reflection of the person you are today.
4. The girl you date believes she knows everything.
The woman you marry is smart enough to know there is always something more to learn.
5. The girl you date will try and control you.
The woman you marry will know that noone can be controlled.
6. The girl you date will do everything to keep you (even if it comes off as clingy or obsessive), because she is scared that one day you will leave her.
The woman you marry will know that you have to chose to stay together every single day, and she is secure enough in herself to know that you wouldn’t be with her if you didn’t really want to.
7. The girl you date will want to piggyback off the empire you built, and not care for a second about building her own.
The woman you marry will want to create an empire together, because she knows that two minds are better than one. And what’s better than having your favorite teammate right beside you the whole way up to the top.
I would like to note that although these are great indicators of the differences in some of the girls you’ve dated, versus the girl you married, or will marry, but there are always exceptions to the rule.
You can just as easily marry a woman who only cares about herself, and who will act more like a girl than a woman, and it is your choice to decipher between the two, and chose the best possible partner for yourself.
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